Resolutions or change – that is the question.

Resolutions or change – that is the question.

Tim Connor

Well folks – another year under the belt (not literally – unless you ate too much).

A suggestion – make this a period of reflection and not resolutions and why?  Well over 90% of resolutions are not kept - again and why not?

Lack of discipline?

Lack of focus?

Lack of purpose?

Lack of passion?

Lack of action?

Lack of commitment?

YES, to all of the above. So why not try something different this year – spend a few hours in reflection and get to the root of your need for change, improvement or at least finding better excuses. 

I’ll give you a few questions to get you started, then it’s up to you to add more depending on your personal circumstances, dreams, goals or life purpose.

1)    What were some of your poor or bad decisions last year? Why did you make them? How did they turn out?

2)    How about the good ones? And why? And what were the results?

3)    Goals that were not met?  And why?

4)    Goals met and how? Or why? 

Getting sick of the why’s? Well nothing will change unless you answer the why’s.

5)    Mindsets or attitudes that need change, elimination or improvement.

6)    Circumstances you didn’t expect that you were not prepared for.

7)    Unexpected blessings or gifts (not stuff) you received.

8)    Behaviors that may be sabotaging your success and or happiness.

9)    Something you need to let go of or surrender to.

10) New people in your life that are getting in the way of your journey.

11) New people in your life that are accelerating your journey.

12) Personal habits that are having a negative impact on your life.

13) Relationships that need to be re-evaluated and why?

14) Disappointment’s and why?

15) Decisions not made and why not?

These should get you started. 

Have a prosperous, healthy, happy and successful 2016.