The
clock is ticking . . .
Tim
Connor
Waiting for a promotion? The perfect mate? Win the
lottery? A new job or a career? The perfect vacation? Need I go on?
Millions of people are just waiting – waiting for their life, career,
business, relationship, job or health to get better or change in some way. I am not against patience, effort, planning,
hoping etc. but let me ask you – are you doing all those things but still
waiting for something, anything to change, improve, disappear, that will
improve some aspect of your life?
Let me repeat – millions of people - spend, no – waste -
days, months and even years for just the right time to – get married or
divorced, retire or start a new career, travel or start a new hobby etc. and
why - because they believe that hoping
is often enough. Again, I am a big fan
of hope but I am also a fan of reality and reality often conflicts with our
plans, goals, dreams and wishes. Did
this stuff not happen because God doesn’t care, your parents let you down, your
spouse is an idiot, your boss is insensitive, the weather isn’t cooperating –
give me a break.
Many people today feel as though they are not on the right
road to success or happiness cause:
-it is taking too long
-the journey is too difficult
-there are too many curves, detours, unknowns or bumps in
the road
-there is no one on their path willing to help them
Or,
Who is to say which is the right road?
Who can know the future?
Who has the right to dictate outcomes to others in their
life?
Who can know the future long term benefits/challenges of
present circumstances, choices or opportunities?
I have met hundreds of people in my world travels who:
-were going to begin something when the time or
circumstances are right
-were going to stop/end something for the same reasons
-were going to start saving some day.
-some day are going to start their own business
-are going to write a book some day
-are going to change careers or jobs – whenever
-and a million other examples of – I am going to
______________ some day.
Do you know anyone like that? Am I describing you?
Why don’t people start or begin something, anything?
-Are they are afraid to fail.
-Are they afraid of what other people might or will think.
-Do they lack confidence, belief in themselves or the will
to begin.
-Are they are full of excuses.
-Are they are just trying to impress people with their
statements of desire.
-Do they want –whatever – to be perfect, right or
acceptable.
-Are they are unwilling to get out of their comfort zones.
-Do they think just by wanting it they will somehow
miraculously get it – someday.
-Are they are hopeless dreamers. Nothing wrong with dreams, but you have to
begin to make them a reality.
-Can you add any to this list?
One
of my favorite questions to ask members of an audience is, “If you knew then,
what you know now, would you have lived any area of your life
differently?” And the two follow-up
questions are always more difficult for many people – if so, “Why?” and “How?”
and “When?”
You
see, if you knew then what you know now, you wouldn’t be where you are now. You
wouldn’t have what you now have and you wouldn’t be with whom you are with now.
Not that any of these things are good or bad (they could be either if you
choose to see them that way). There is a metaphysical concept that says: each
of us is where we are supposed to be -
and that we have experienced what we needed to experience to grow and
learn. I haven’t lost it or gone off the deep end.
Why
do people wait? It’s called procrastination and it is a thief of time. It steals
from the value and essence of your personal life and career. Why do people put
things off? We could write a book on this, but I’ll give it a try in 25 words
or less.
They: fear the future, overestimate their ability to get
things done, don’t know what to do or how to do it, thrive on pressure, set
themselves up for failure, love disappointment, like being a victim, have too
much on their plate, fail to set clear priorities, or have poor time management
or organizational skills.
What is the cost of procrastination?
1. Missed opportunities.
2. Increased stress.
3. Broken relationships.
4. Failure.
5. Increased anxiety and frustration.
6. The lack of respect of others.
That’s enough, don’t you think?
So, I’ll wager that the clock is ticking for you in some
area of your life!!!
What are you waiting for?
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